Have You Been Brainwashed?
Posted by: psychman33 in Religion, tags: brainwashing, Christianity, PsychologyHaving grown up as the youngest son of a Christian minister, first in the Baptist denomination, then into Pentecostal and Non-Denominational Churches (part of the Charismatic movement for the most part), I was heavily indoctrinated in Protestant Christianity from a very young age (since birth really). From my earliest memories, I was in church everytime the doors were opened (mainly because my father usually was the one who opened them). For much of my early childhood, we even had a family bible study every single weeknight. As a result, I have a very strong understanding and knowledge of this religion, and it’s sacred writings.
Another effect of this style of upraising is that I have undergone a long, painful, arduous journey escaping what I now think of as the brainwashing that I was subjected to for more than half of my life. To this day, I still have not escaped all of the effects of this time in my life. After all, it was perpetrated at the most developmentally important part of my growth. My natural bend to intellectualism was discouraged and stunted, because it does not fit with the practice of blind faith. My kneejerk sense of morality, which has both negative and positive aspects, does not always correspond with a realistic purview of ethical behavior. Depite my initial liberation from irrational beliefs, I still pay a penalty for the brainwashing I endured in these, and many other different ways. I am progressing daily. But, it seems such an unnecessary struggle should have been avoided.
The steps of Brainwashing according to:
http://health.howstuffworks.com/brainwashing1.htm
1.Assault on identity
2.Guilt
3.Self-betrayal
4.Breaking point
5.Leniency
6.Compulsion to confess
7.Channeling of guilt
8.Releasing of guilt
9.Progress and harmony
10.Final confession and rebirth
Why do I think of this as brainwashing? Let’s consider the definition of brainwashing (according to Oxford American Dictionary): make (someone) adopt radically different beliefs by using systematic and often forcible pressure.
1. The first step to brainwashing is to attack the subject’s sense of self, or identity. Since a child is developing his/her sense of self within the context of the religious teachings, this step is fulfilled by default, as there is no prior sense of self to overcome.
2. Christianity is built upon the concept of guilt. We sinful creatures must be redeemed from the sinful nature we inherited, that was passed down through the generations from Adam and Eve. So, the second step, which is guilt is obviously fulfilled.
3. Attending church, listening to the songs, the sermon, and just the casual conversation of the congregation, constantly reinforces to the child how guilty everyone including the child him/her self are. This fulfills the step of self betrayal by convincing the child of his/her own lack of intrinsic worth. The child is forced to admit this, at least inside, if not to others. Ultimately, this step is about internalizing the guilt that is hammered down in step 2.
4. This leads to the point where the child wonders what he/she, the wretched sinful creature can possibly do about his/her dismal state. Obviously, there is nothing that he/she as an inherently evil creature can do. This is the point where God and Jesus come in. They are willing to forgive you, and give you a new life, one without the sinful nature that makes you so evil. The child is worn down to the point of relinquishing his/her control of self, the breaking point. I clearly remember spending many sleepless nights at the tender age of 8 crying out to God to save me. I was terrified of going to hell. It was much worse than any horror movie, or any other source of fear that I had felt before or since that time. It is a very powerful motivator to embrace the teachings of Christianity. To this day, I still have a deep fear of going to hell, even though I no longer even believe in such a place.
5. The step of leniency is fulfilled by the grace and mercy that God exhibits by giving the child a chance at salvation, simply by believing that Jesus died as a sacrifice to redeem him/her from his/her wretched sinful nature. He/She can now go to heaven, because she/he believes. Isn’t God good to help that child. Isn’t He showing leniency to such an unworthy creature.
6-10. To save time and space, I won’t belabor the obvious. I think that you get the gist of what I am saying here. For these reasons, I will summarize the rest of the steps in one short paragraph. The child is encouraged to confess his/her sins often, at various times, in various ways. The pain that is associated with the guilt is attributed to the “world” as opposed to the “things of God” or the “Kingdom of Heaven”. This encourages the child to avoid the “evil” things of the “world”. After the conversion experience, it is the world that is blamed for the evil that may occasionally overtake the child. To remedy this, the child is encouraged to avoid the world. It is by renewing his/her mind in the Word of God that he/she insulates him/her self from the world, and the attendant guilt. This renewing and dedication to the things of God are put forth as providing the peace and harmony that has been denied the child through the aforementioned mechanisms. This, in turn, provides a sense of comfort and a cessation of a sense of responsibility within the child, as long as he/she continues to live in the prescribed way.
Considering that nearly every one of these steps can take place in a single church service, and that many children go through thousands of these services in their lifetimes, one can easily see the erosive power of such a mechanism on a person’s will, especially as the personality, will, emotions, virtually every aspect that we think of as representing the very humanness of humanity, is yet to be formed. I have often thought that continuing to teach something that has already been learned ad nauseam must be a form or step of brainwashing. In what other aspect of life is this sort of instruction used, and considered normal?
The alert reader may wonder how the definition’s statement of adopting radically different beliefs is fulfilled. Well, I’m glad you asked. Part of what led to my eventual deconversion was my noticing the fact that many of the most important claims made in the Bible are of a supernatural nature. Though I have spoken with a few people who claim direct exposure to what they consider to be supernatural events, I have not witnessed nor heard of any experience or phenomena that could not either be explained using natural means, or reasonably doubted (most often because of humanity’s notoriously untrustworthy mechansisms of perception). This has lead me to ask the question, both of myself and others: What in our daily experiences supports the idea of the supernatural phenomena reported in the bible? Is there any reason or evidence that shows that such claims are truly possible/probable. These beliefs that we are expected to hold in Christianity really are radically different from our personal experiences of the natural world. What reason, other than the teaching (brainwashing), and widespread acceptance of such beliefs, do we have to believe these truly incredible claims?
The Antichristian Phenomenon



April 7th, 2010 at 9:54 am - Edit
Without wanting to sound overly depressing, I do however think that we are brainwashed in more areas than religion. A parent can bring their child to a church or other forms of religious institutitions, but how that institution treats the child highly depends on those employed at that institutition. I think at heart here, the parent does have the ultimate power of what a child should believe and not believe, at least up until a certain age. The parent must bring the child to tha instititution first, and it will be the parent who will at first introduce a child into the religious teachings of their choice. However, the force of schooling and other societal ways to convey opinions such as peer pressure should not be neglected. Such things as "country X" or "people who live at place Y" is a form of groupthinking of such a societal level it's kind of hard to comprehend. Yes, for example the Catholic church has the power of millions of people, but those people still live in different countries where the people around them will also govern them how to think. I congratulate you for freeing yourself form the shackles that is religion, however, I think we, as human beings, got many more shackles to free ourselves from, many which are so internalized in how we think, may not be apparent enough for us to even realize we are shackled. And maybe, just maybe, we enjoy those shackles. It gives us a sense of self, of who we are, and a feeling of stability in our lives. Am a liberalist out of choice, or am I one because my education, expectations from others and upbringing has made me so? Sometimes not that easy to tell. I would like to believe I am out of my own choice, but really, I cannot be completely certain.
April 7th, 2010 at 5:18 pm - Edit
Yes, I do agree and think that we are more a product of 'extrapersonal' conditions than our own volition, even though it is often hard to see it is so. However, I also agree with the article that in the very least, some fundamentals of the Christian religion (or even all three Abrahamic religions) work especially well in the brainwashing scheme that is presented. Perhaps it is partly the reason why these three religions have been able to permeate and dominate societies on an almost global level.
People who promote this religion needn't even consciously go for a brainwashing scheme (which I think is very rare), but the teachings and mindset themselves are what allow for easy meme infection.
April 11th, 2010 at 8:31 pm - Edit
Like you aren't antagonizing yourself right now, in this very post? You are the one who sought THIS blog and THIS post out; therefore you CHOOSE to make it a part of YOUR life. Atheism has existed in most shapes and forms since man started to believe. You are atheistic towards all other religions you do not believe and follow, that is the definition of an atheist. But really, you are just a miserable troll, so I am not even sure why I am writing this, but mentally tired from raiding gives me nothing better to do. You also seem to fail to realize that you, just like all other people in this world, ASSIGN your life a reason whether you are aware of this or not. Some people think it's religion, some people think it's having a family, some think it's about saving the world from its miseries, some think it's about coming and troll blogs like ours like you are doing right now. The liar is you, who do not even try to come with rational arguments but merely insisting on your supreme opinion, when it is just that, an opinion. The people who actively write on the Antichristian Phenomenon gladly welcome people for theological discussions, but you are not interested to discuss, you are merely interested to antagonize. Hypocrite.
April 12th, 2010 at 5:19 pm - Edit
"1. The first step to brainwashing is to attack the subject’s sense of self, or identity. Since a child is developing his/her sense of self within the context of the religious teachings, this step is fulfilled by default, as there is no prior sense of self to overcome".
This step is not fulfilled by default…If it is a step to brainwashing then it isnt fulfilled at all. And if it is, then all aspects of life are built upon this premise…hence EVERYONE is brainwashed into believing something, be it religion or any other subject matter.
"2. Christianity is built upon the concept of guilt. We sinful creatures must be redeemed from the sinful nature we inherited, that was passed down through the generations from Adam and Eve. So, the second step, which is guilt is obviously fulfilled."
Christianity is built upon the message of Christ, which was Faith, Hope & Love. And again, the concept of guilt can be applied to MULTIPLE aspects.
April 30th, 2010 at 6:21 pm - Edit
Chad, if there is no prior sense of self, and the current sense of self is being established in an atmosphere of incessant pounding of the docrine of the child's intrinsic guilt simply by association, and general state of being evil, how does this not fulfill this first step? Are you saying that simply because there was no initial sense of self to overcome, that this is not brainwashing? If so, then I submit you are grasping for any reason to reject this idea that religions resort to brainwashing. In any other learning situation, once a person demonstrates that they understand the material presented, we stop teaching that material, and move on to other information to teach. Religions continue to pound in the same material ad nauseum. Also, to demand that the child accept this idea without any evidence to support it is outside of objective reality.
This message of faith hope and love to which you make reference is based on the idea that we are all guilt-ridden, worthless, evil creatures, who need the blood sacrifice of a man-god to cleanse us of our sins. So, the faith is in the idea that we are in such a state, and can be redeemed from it. The hope is that god will redeem us from it, that he will keep his promise to accept Jesus' sacrifice in place of our own. The love part doesn't make a lot of sense to me in this context. This god doesn't sound loving to me.
I don't understand to what you refer when you say "the concept of guilt can be applied to multiple aspects". Could you further explain this idea?
May 25th, 2010 at 9:32 pm - Edit
I agree completely with what you are saying in this post. My jaw drops every time I hear a Christian talk about "those crazy cults" as though Christianity is so clearly not one. It doesn't get an exemption just for being a very popular cult!
I just wonder, what can we do to help people who have been brainwashed. That would be our first course of action if we found out that a friend had joined something like Heaven's Gate, or even Amway or something like that — try to get them to see what's happening, see that they are being manipulated and lied to. But how can we broach that subject with Christians? I've never had any luck trying to point out this phenomenon to them.
May 25th, 2010 at 9:34 pm - Edit
For clarity — I glanced back at the post and realized that the word "cult" is mine here, you referred only to "brainwashing." I hear one and think of the other, in almost every case.
May 26th, 2010 at 11:17 pm - Edit
“Chad, if there is no prior sense of self, and the current sense of self is being established in an atmosphere of incessant pounding of the docrine of the child’s intrinsic guilt simply by association, and general state of being evil, how does this not fulfill this first step”.
Because you’re changing the fundamental definition of brainwashing in order to agree with you’re assertion. Let’s simplify this. Consider the basic meaning of the term, brain”WASHING”. Metaphorically meaning to wash away what was previously in place and replace it with something else. If nothing is there beforehand then WHATEVER you’re taught as a child (regardless of what it is), establishes your initial sense of identification. I understand you may be speaking from your own personal experiences, but your experience cannot be used to villify an entire group of millions. If it did then that would include me as well, and I certainly wasn’t taught ANYTHING like what you described, nor have a taught my son anything like that.
Regardless of what you think, Christs message was faith, hope & love. Its in the Bible…ie, love thy enemies, turn the other cheek, etc…that IS the fundamental premise of Christianity. That isn’t to say there haven’t been and still aren’t wack jobs out there who aren’t guilty of what you describe, because there certainly is.
So far as the concept of guilt goes….You decided against objectivity by asserting that all of Christianity is guilty of brainwashing children. And since I identify with Christianity; that includes me as well. Therefore you are attacking my sense of self by falsley accusing me of being guilty of something for which I know that I am not.(Or as you call it..”Intrinsic Guilt”). To make such an accusation “without any evidence to support it is outside of objective reality”.(Your words) So who is guilty of brainwashing?
Whether you believe it or not, your entire argument is, at best, self defeating, while, at worst, hypocritical.
May 26th, 2010 at 11:46 pm - Edit
“I just wonder, what can we do to help people who have been brainwashed. That would be our first course of action if we found out that a friend had joined something like Heaven’s Gate, or even Amway or something like that — try to get them to see what’s happening, see that they are being manipulated and lied to”
Let me get this straight…you want to convince people to stop believing what they think is true because you say there’s no real evidence to support it, in order to get them to believe what you say isn’t true, with no real evidence to support that view either. So basically what you’re saying is you have no problem with the act of brainwashing. Just a problem with the detergent used the first time around.
May 27th, 2010 at 9:35 pm - Edit
You misinterpret me completely. I suppose in the case of Amway, there is actual evidence that the business proposal they are being handed is not as profitable as it is claimed, that it is actually supremely unprofitable for the vast majority of people who join it. There is evidence that it is a scam. If I had a friend who thought Amway was great, I would try to convince them that Amway was awful. I would hardly call that "brainwashing" though.
In the case of religion, I would never claim that there is absolute proof that God does not exist or that any religion's supernatural claims are not true. I have not looked everywhere for heaven yet, so I can't promise that it's not there — and by the time I check everywhere, it'll have been a long time since I looked in the first few places so I'll have to start all over again. I would just hope that people would refrain from believing unsubstantiated claims. I'm not looking to replace those claims with anything.
Unless you are suggesting that I want to "brainwash them" to understand the value of evidence and logical reasoning. At which point having any kind of logical argument really becomes impossible — so I doubt that is what you are going for. But one never knows.
May 27th, 2010 at 9:42 pm - Edit
It seems to me that your entire argument here is just nitpicking about one possible connotation of the word "brainwashing," that makes you have a hard time imagining it being done to a "fresh" mind that didn't have its own ideas beforehand. This is not a dispute about the actual content, just a quibble with the term used to encapsulate the entire idea.Would you be more okay with it if he called it "aggressive indoctrination from birth"? Is that a-okay behavior in your mind, while brainwashing is not?
May 27th, 2010 at 10:30 pm - Edit
“It seems to me that your entire argument here is just nitpicking about one possible connotation of the word “brainwashing,” that makes you have a hard time imagining it being done to a “fresh” mind that didn’t have its own ideas beforehand. This is not a dispute about the actual content, just a quibble with the term used to encapsulate the entire idea”
No..it is in fact about the actual content because it falsely misrepresents a group of millions. The author of this topic is using his own life experiences in an effort to show what he experienced as being the end all be all of Christianity. One of the criteria he noted for brainwashing was an attack on the individuals sense of self by asserting a false accusation of guilt with no evidence to support it. Yet he doesn’t see that’s exactly what he himself is doing to people like me..who identify with the Christian religion, yet none of the things he asserts happened to me, nor have I done any such thing to my child, or anyone else for that matter. Even your terminology is wrong..I wasn’t brainwashed, nor was I “aggressively indoctrinated from birth”.
May 27th, 2010 at 10:51 pm - Edit
Chad: Do you believe in Adam and Eve's fall from Eden, in God's punishment of all their descendants for eating the forbidden fruit, and the idea that Jesus died to redeem humanity for that original sin? Do you believe that unrepentant sinners and nonbelievers go to hell, or at least fail to go to heaven?
May 28th, 2010 at 12:34 am - Edit
If you’re referring to the concept of original sin..then yes. But no amount of indoctrination or brainwashing can change that. The Bible also makes it clear that we all have free will. Our choices are ours to make. God does not force anyone to worship and/or obey him. But again…that does not equate to what is described by the author of this topic.
May 28th, 2010 at 3:11 am - Edit
…Wow. You say that you have never been attacked by a false accusation of guilt with no evidence to support it, and you claim that your child and ALL other Christians (I assume what you meant by "anyone else") have also never been so baselessly accused.
Yet you believe in original sin.
You taught your child, from as soon as they could understand what you were saying, that a man made out of dirt and a woman made out of a man's rib ate some fruit in a magical garden because a talking snake told them to. But a magical sky man didn't want them to eat that fruit, even though he put it right there in front of them and didn't give them the knowledge to understand that it was good to obey his commands. So he was very angry, and punished that man and woman's children for ALL ETERNITY. And that is why we are all VERY BAD PEOPLE no matter what we do. Deep down inside, all humans are INHERENTLY bad.
But there's no way that that could possibly be "a false accusation of guilt with no evidence to support it." Right Chad?
May 28th, 2010 at 4:15 am - Edit
You’re trying to build a straw-man, and a pretty weak one at that. I didn’t say I’ve never been falsely attacked. I said my sense of self was not attacked by my parents, or any other person in an attempt to indoctrinate me into Christianity. Let me also remind you that the basis of the topic is the psychological “Act” of brainwashing supposedly done to helpless children by adults.
“You taught your child, from as soon as they could understand what you were saying, that a man made out of dirt and a woman made out of a man’s rib ate some fruit in a magical garden because a talking snake told them to. But a magical sky man didn’t want them to eat that fruit, even though he put it right there in front of them and didn’t give them the knowledge to understand that it was good to obey his commands”
Yet again, another unsupported argument. I never said what I’ve taught my child. Although you apparently know what I’ve taught him? I certainly have never used the term “Talking Snake”. However, your doing so only further reveals your lack of understanding of the Bible…the term “Snake” is never used, nor does it say anything about eating fruit. Don’t believe me? Go back and take a closer look at Genesis and see what it says.
May 28th, 2010 at 4:17 am - Edit
The Bible also says that all have sinned and fall short etc..
Unless you can say that you’ve NEVER committed a sin then its not a false accusation..its a fact.
May 28th, 2010 at 4:50 am - Edit
The term "snake" is sometimes used, and "serpent" is used in other translations. Please see here if you really think "the term 'Snake' is never used." http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Genes…
And I have no idea why you think it is legitimate to say, "nor does it say anything about eating fruit." Perhaps you are the one who should reread Genesis. KJV, NIV, and ESV all discuss the eating of "fruit" in Genesis 3.
To say that you, immediately upon being born, were a sinner — that you never had any innocence — that you are innately bad to the foundations of your being no matter what your choices or your personality or beliefs — I cannot imagine that that does not attack your sense of self. The idea that you are so bad that you deserve eternal hellfire, unless you get lucky enough for God to decide to forgive you for being such a worthless bit of slime … that is a terrifying thought at any age, but especially for children.
I make no assumptions about what you have taught your child, by the way. You were the one who wrote: "yet none of the things he asserts happened to me, nor have I done any such thing to my child, or anyone else for that matter." You were explaining how the post's claims about Christianity and Christians were untrue. You were the one who told me you were bringing your child up Christian. Either that, or your writing is extraordinarily unclear.
Your dispute of this being a "false" accusation just collapses the debate to whether or not Christianity is true, and/or whether the Bible is an authoritative document. I've talked to a lot of Christians and read a whole lot on the subject, and I've never come across any compelling, external justification for the validity of the claims of Christianity. It all reads like: "The Bible is true because it is the word of / inspired by God. God must exist, because the Bible says he does. And the Bible's true, I know that because it's God's word." Ad nauseam. You can't just say "it's a fact" and pretend you've proven your point. Well, you can, but it's just more evidence that you have in fact been brainwashed.
May 28th, 2010 at 12:54 pm - Edit
Your refusal to remain on topic only proves my argument correct.
May 28th, 2010 at 11:04 pm - Edit
Cult as in what definition? Cult should preferably be understood as a religious movement without any formal hierarchy or leadership. I frankly do not understand what you mean by "cult" here.
May 28th, 2010 at 11:20 pm - Edit
Chad, that's pretty much a strawman argument. The point was that if you believe in Original Sin, then you must also admit that all humans are instrinsically bad. This means that we can never become good people even if we try. Which in turn means that it does attack our sense of self into a negative picture, since most people would like to think of themselves in a good light.
From the site the OP linked:
"Assault on identity: You are not who you think you are.
This is a systematic attack on a target's sense of self (also called his identity or ego) and his core belief system. The agent denies everything that makes the target who he is: "You are not a soldier." "You are not a man." "You are not defending freedom." The target is under constant attack for days, weeks or months, to the point that he becomes exhausted, confused and disoriented. In this state, his beliefs seem less solid."
Makes me think of Fight Club where Tyler starts Project Mayhem and recruit his space monkeys, where he kept telling them they are not individuals (because they have been taught they are in the rest of the society) and such. I would like to bring up how the use of a "force" is important, ergo, you are constantly attacked while still being in a submissive and inferior state (which is suggested as a criterion for the attack on self). Children fit this definition because we usually do not let their voices be heard and they want to trust the grown-ups' authority. Again compare to how Tyler told the narrator to actually openly offend the new space monkey recruits such as "you are too fat" or "you're too fucking blonde". Which is quite different from a person attempting to hold a somewhat sensible debate using logic as a tool. There is a difference in argumentative persuasion and giving people little choice to choose what to think. Even if your argumentation is very persuasive, there is no guarantee that the person that you are arguing against will actually change opinions, given their opinions are generally well-grounded. Compare to the movie Shawshank Redemption where Red said that it was even impossible for him to pee once he got his parole, because he had become so "institutionalized". If he did go for a pee without permission he would've been beaten up inside the prison. Hence the use of, in this case, physical force. In Tyler's case psychological. Good real life examples are women who are stuck in abusive relationships. I would also argue that social isolation from the rest of the society is a very important factor here. It's not like you are isolated when you choose to close down your internet browser. The people in all the cases I provided with however are. Either because they have been systematically isolated by their oppressors or because they choose to willingly become so.
Personally I do not believe in "brainwashing" per se. Heck, even CIA argued that it was impossible to brainwash people and they dropped their project. Some food for thought:
"It is not only possible to be a member of several NRMs simultaneously, but it is also possible to remain a member of the religion of one's birth, This gives rise to a whole new understanding of the meaning of conversion and is also of a direct relevance to the brainwashing debate." – Peter Clarke, 2006, my emphasis.
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May 29th, 2010 at 2:56 am - Edit
Uh, what? Why do you think that cults don't have formal hierarchy or leadership? Have you heard the term "cult leader"?
I'm sorry that my clarification seems to have made things less clear, though. I just meant to acknowledge that by "cult" I meant, "a group which brainwashes its members" — the popular understanding of a cult, basically.
May 29th, 2010 at 3:17 pm - Edit
Noforbidden…
“Popular Understanding” doesn’t change the meaning of the subject.
May 29th, 2010 at 5:22 pm - Edit
Well, I go from a scientific definition. I think your "cult leader" is to me just a charismatic leader, which can appear in any religious groups. It doesn't mean that the members actually got any direct contact with the leader, though, so I still don't see what makes your argument of a cult valid. The problem is that your definition of a "cult" can be anything from a denomination to a sect. This makes the definition itself very troublesome, because the idea of whether there is brainwashing going on is often very subjective.
Basically you can say to any person who is religious and is a part of a religious group that "I think you are undergoing brainwashing!" to which they would most likely retort that "No, I am not", to which it is very easy to reply to that "The fact that you aren't aware of it is proof that there is brainwashing going on!". I shouldn't have to point out why this reasoning is fallacious.
May 30th, 2010 at 5:44 pm - Edit
"But a magical sky man didn't want them to eat that fruit, even though he put it right there in front of them and didn't give them the knowledge to understand that it was good to obey his commands"
Gen 4:17 – But of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, thou shalt not eat of it; for in the day that thou eatest thereof thou SHALT SURELY DIE….Hmm, seems pretty clear to me.
And before you say it…you were correct in that the term "Eat" is used. However, the original term used here was "Partake".
May 30th, 2010 at 6:03 pm - Edit
"The term "snake" is sometimes used, and "serpent" is used in other translations. Please see here if you really think "the term 'Snake' is never used." http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Genes…
Genesis 3:1 – Now the Serpent was more subtle than any beast of the field" etc…
There are many versions of the bible out there that supposedly make it easier to understand. Unfortunately these can be very misleading. They take terminology from thousands of years ago and apply modern words. Yes, the common (modern day) understanding of the word "serpent" would be "snake". However, the term "Serpent" is translated from the Hebrew word "Nachash", which was used in the original text and means "To Shine", or "Shining One". i.e. Satan appeared to Eve as a beautiful, and/or shining individual.
May 30th, 2010 at 6:03 pm - Edit
Heres another example…In Mathew 24:19 Jesus is speaking about the end times and says "And woe unto them that are with child, and to them that give suck in those days". I have read some versions that change this verse to say "Woe unto pregnant women"…Now do you think thats really what Jesus was trying to say?
May 30th, 2010 at 6:09 pm - Edit
"The point was that if you believe in Original Sin, then you must also admit that all humans are instrinsically bad. This means that we can never become good people even if we try. Which in turn means that it does attack our sense of self into a negative picture, since most people would like to think of themselves in a good light. '
LeaT – I dont mean to split hairs here but Original Sin, and Intrinsically Bad are two completely different terms with two completely different meanings.
May 31st, 2010 at 1:47 pm - Edit
Really? Care to elaborate on that, because I don't personally see the difference? We are BORN AS BAD PEOPLE because of the fault of one person. Then whether you believe in baptism or not is another matter, but A LOT of Christians DO emphasize the sinfulness of human nature because that's who we are and the only thing we can do about it is to repent and ask for god's forgiveness. You may not believe it that way, but many certainly do.
May 31st, 2010 at 1:48 pm - Edit
Care to give a source on that?
June 1st, 2010 at 6:17 pm - Edit
I dont have an online source…The information I provided is from the Strongs Concordance, which I have a hardback copy of.
June 2nd, 2010 at 11:50 am - Edit
Well, a quick Google seach reveals that it's based on King James, which immediately makes it questionable.
June 2nd, 2010 at 1:41 pm - Edit
I’m thinking I may know why you say that, but just to be clear…Why does that make it questionable?
June 18th, 2010 at 1:11 pm - Edit
OK… I'm back to dumb shit down for you guys… again
Now on the issue of brainwashing; as an adult that has had to endure some pretty horrible shit. I have had Christians from work trying to brainwash me; and I have never really be religiously orientated. They have basically told me that if I do not believe in Christ, then I will burn in hell 'For Ever'. Fucking hell they made me angry. My father killed himself, and he was not of Christian faith, so by their reasoning; he will be burning in hell forever; because, by my understanding… he was a hardworking decent human being, that cared for his family and put them first and foremost before himself. Now after his death I have had these Christian fucking fanatics trying to tell me what they think of my father. And they do try to brainwash people, I actually felt fear when they brought forth their views. They attack people on a spiritual level.
But thankfully I have friends that gave me just a couple of threads of logic that blasted their dogma into nothingness.
Trust me when I say this; these Christian fanatics are very sly. They come up with any bullshit to try to break you down.
DON'T FUCKING BELIEVE IT… PLEASE
SAVE YOURSELF BY BEING YOURSELF.
P.S. and if I have to go to hell to meet my father again… then so be it… I should have told him I loved him before he died.
June 18th, 2010 at 1:23 pm - Edit
and if God is actually the monster that these fuckers portray him as.
Then he is going to be one very dead fucking God now isn't he?
June 23rd, 2010 at 3:31 am - Edit
You have no point. All you do is nitpick and try to worm your way out of arguements by picking one part of someone's retort rather than taking it as a whole. Quit trying to argue with these guys if you are going to do that, it really makes you look bad from a 3rd party perspective.
February 28th, 2011 at 7:08 pm - Edit
I have a friend on the internet, who seems very lovely and is always there for me. However, recently he is trying to stop me loving the music and artists I love saying it is ''UnChristian'' leaving me feeling very upset. He says unless I devote my life to Christ I am doomed to hell and that my favorite singer *now dead* is burning in hell and that my Grandfather who was alovely man, is also in Hell! i dont know whether I should end the friendship as he is making me feel really horrible. He says he is not pushing me to do anything yet makes me feel so guilty. Says i am worshipping fallse Gods…..I have cried non stop. someone tell me whether I need to end this now!
October 2nd, 2011 at 8:49 am - Edit
read a book
"ask and it is given" by esther and jerry hicks
there is a lot that is explained about the nature of
reality within this book
January 23rd, 2012 at 10:05 am - Edit
i feel ya steve. try not to be mad at a god that doesnt exit